Where did our dreams go?

Dream big, surround yourselves with great people and don’t be scared to ask for help.

To my children: dream big, surround yourselves with great people and don’t be scared to ask for help.

This is part of the dedication at the front of my first book, The Numbers Business; how to grow a successful cloud accountancy practice. I read it today as I was looking through the book to check some information for a new talk that I’m writing.

When my kids were little they were full of ideas. Their imaginations were limitless. Now they’re teenagers and their dreams are, to me, quite ordinary and definitely small. They’re mainly focused on their everyday lives at school. Where did their dreams go?

As adults many of us are the same. The minutiae of life has left us no time for dreaming. When did you last take some time to assess the ‘big picture’ of your life? What makes you happy? And are you doing enough of your happy thing? This is what led me to sell my successful accountancy practice to focus on the coaching side business that I love.

When you know what you want to achieve you can set the detailed action plan and add some costs and timescales to it. A business plan, but for your life.

Sometime in the next month book a day just to dream. Start with the big, no holds barred ideas. Work out what you really want from life and write this down. Then book a second ‘reality’ day to work out what you can do to achieve this or something similar enough to be satisfying. How do you get from here to there and what help do you need along the way.

To all of you out there: Don’t be afraid to dream big